Wayne R. Von Feldt

Wayne R. Von Feldt passed away peacefully on February 3, 2026, surrounded by his family, at the age of 90. He is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Helen Ross Von Feldt, his four children, Marie Von Feldt, Judi Taylor (Matt Taylor), Jenny Von Feldt (David Kieselstein) and Richard Von Feldt (William Baker) and his six grandchildren, Ross Taylor, Jenna Taylor, Danny Taylor, Brendan Taylor, Emanon Von Feldt and Will Kieselstein, as well as his brothers, Bill and Dwight Von Feldt.

Wayne had a distinguished career in Oklahoma in municipal finance. He generously shared his leadership and expertise with local civic organizations, non-profits and universities, serving as Chairman of the Board of Oklahoma City University.

Wayne married Helen Ross in 1962. Helen was the love of his life for 65 years, and Wayne cherished every moment with her. A gifted soprano, Helen was the music of Wayne’s life, and watching her perform was his greatest joy. Their days together were filled with unconditional love, compliments, gratitude, and humor. Wayne’s love for Helen was an inspiration to all who witnessed their kindness and care for one another.

To his children, Wayne was the ultimate Dad. He was joyful, patient, accepting, and endlessly supportive. He was a father who accepted their choices without judgment but always encouraged them to grow beyond their comfort zones. Whenever he picked up the phone, he began every call with, “I just love hearing your voice” with such enthusiasm and joy that they felt like the most important person in the world. This was followed by deep and thoughtful questions about their lives. His interest was limitless, and his love was unconditional.

To his grandchildren, he was affectionately known as “Waynie.” His joy showed up in everyday ways: in his homemade chocolate milkshakes, donuts every Saturday morning, and midnight trips to the diner. He was delightfully goofy, always trying to make his family laugh, and always succeeding. With his curious mind and encyclopedic memory, he delighted in helping them write papers and solve problems, pulling facts and stories from a lifetime of learning. The grandchildren considered him their best friend.

Wayne was a great listener and had the rare gift of making everyone feel heard and valued. Wayne never offered advice outright. Instead, he asked thoughtful, intelligent questions that helped others think more deeply and see the world in new ways. A globe and a dictionary were always nearby, quiet symbols of his lifelong love of learning.

Wayne will be remembered for the way he lived as an open-hearted, curious, and generous man with a laugh that continues to echo in the hearts of all who knew him.

A private family service has already been held, honoring Wayne’s life in an intimate and loving setting.